Bittersweet

Today Allie casually mentioned she was going to write a letter to her bully. I was walking down the hall at the time and did a complete turn around. I asked "You have a a bully?!?" She said yes like it was nothing. I said you need to talk to your teacher as soon as you see her. Allie looked at me like I was crazy and said "I was already going to do that". I finally pulled her down on my lap and asked what was going on. Everyday I ask, and ask what has happened at school and I get hours of every detail but a BULLY didn't make into the retelling? Apparently a new girl has ruined her recess at least 3 times I won't go into detail but Allie finally decided she had had enough. I asked why she didn't tell me and the answer "I just forgot" came up. Then I said we need to know about these things, Mom and Dad's can always help if they know and then she floored me with, I already prayed about it and Heavenly Father said to write a letter. On one hand part of me is rejoicing that she thought to pray and got an answer and on the other I really wish she had chosen to tell ALL of her parents. I can't tell if my problem is I'm feeling slighted or not. I pray everyday that Heavenly Father will help her throughout the day and protect her (because obviously I don't know what will happen while she is away from me) and I have spent years telling her she can ask Heavenly Father anything and he will help her...I just didn't think I was going to be taken out of the loop so soon. I'm feeling a little sad and unneeded. How sad is that?? Because you know it's all about me!